water and oil

water is water, oil is oil.
water and oil can never mix.
so why should water accommodate oil, and try to blend in?
it is possible, for two different entities, to co-exist amicably, without attempting to change any aspect of oneself isnt it?

that being said, i know all i'm trying to do is to find an excuse to justify my stubbornness.
i just want to make myself feel that i AM not wrong.
that my reluctance to join the herd is a firm stand of my individualism, and not merely an obstinate, unreasonable choice...

because after all, humans are not objects. we are not facts. water IS water, oil IS oil. but YM is not just YM. YM can be kind, but can be evil. YM can be nice, but yet selfish.

like water that meanders around obstacles of rock, that flows through the mountains and the valleys, human beings adapt to our surroundings. every single one of us is capable of that, and the only reason why we dont, is because we made the choice NOT to.

i know it only takes this little bit of effort, but i'm just too lazy to move.

i'm such a contradictory person.