old men lunch

had my weekly dose of 'old men lunch' today, and somehow or another, with this bunch of people, the subject of infidelity never fail to be brought up. today was an advanced course into the psychics of these 'old men'. why do i say it's advanced? because i would probably have passed my elementary exams with flying colours, in the 2 months since i started working. today's lecture wasnt entirely new; it just managed to provide deeper insights.

dont say that they are 'hum sup', so which man isnt? only that some hide it behind a mask, others wear it more plainly in their speech and actions, but essentially: all men are the same. and that's fine, because it's the way we're made.

these men do not regard their actions as infidelity, but rather as acquiring a service to fulfill their basic needs. is sex without love tolerable? are love and sex two different entities to men, one being an emotion and the other being a course of action? so it's true that it's really possible to separate these two..? some say yes, some say no...whatever being said, i do believe in what you dont know wont hurt. some things are better left unknown.

and i wonder who i can ever trust to marry and spend the rest of my life with after knowing all these. i came to 3 conclusions:

1. i can marry a very very good man (there are still good men in this world right??)
2. i can marry a very very smart man, cos he will know how not to let me know he is playing outside.
3. or i could be the sort of wife who knows, yet tolerate.

somehow, i feel...the wives always know.....

yawns, bed time.