you dont understand

sigh, no wonder they say men are from mars, and women from venus. sometimes, we just simply DONT understand each other! like two parallel lines, trailing off into the universe in different directions, at different frequencies, and never meeting. in some situations where a guy fails to understand what i'm trying to get across, i often think that if another girl was listening to the same conversation, she would be able to interpret the intentions loud and clear and correct.

i'm not blaming the guy, i blame it on genetics; blame it on the Y chromosome.

i was just chatting with one of the girls last night. she was telling me how she and her bf quarrelled because he was not supportive of her being in the pageant at all. hmm no, correction, he wasnt unsupportive, he just simply doesnt do anything. no acknowledgment, no words of encouragement, no fetching her from shoots/rehearsals, no attendance at semi finals, no..nothing.

seriously you may not think much of it, and we do not expect you to like it, or pretend that you like it, or even pretend you're interested when you really are yawning your head off... i guess all she wanted was appreciation of what she is doing, some form of support..any form..just simply because it involves her and you love her. she just wants to know that you care... and when you act ignorant about it..sigh..it hurts i guess.

just like simple things such as remembering anniversaries, birthdays, schedules...i know some guys are terribly lousy with this sort of thing. not that these days are especially significant and are deserving of fireworks and champagne popping celebrations, but it just a means of showing that you actually bothered and made the effort to commit something about us to memory.

i hate it when.."what are you doing today?","...didnt i tell you i was going to do XXX today?", "oh you did?","....yes i did...i told you like 20 times yesterday."...

to prevent any form of "are you talking about mee??" from arising after this post is published, let me clarity first that i'm not referring to any current situation of mine...hmmmm....

hehe. random thoughts on a rainy late afternoon. the rain came at a good time. i'm starting to feel the heat of exams. i suddenly realised i've so much to study, so much that i dont understand, and so little time...my brain is exploooodddinnggg!!! *kaa boooom*